Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

We are enjoying our holiday in Ellijay, GA with Dan's parents.
We have no cell phone reception, but we do have internet!


So happy Thanksgiving to All!!! We are very blessed and very full :-)


Hopefully, we will post some pictures of our fun weekend!

Friday, October 31, 2008

And the winner is...

By a whopping 27-10 margin...










Congrats Brian and Megan!!!

Sunday, October 26, 2008

VOTE NOW!!!

Sure the presidential election is right around the corner, but there is an even more important election that needs your vote!! To your left you will find a poll...please vote for which pumpkin you think wins the good ole fashion pumpkin carving contest that took place at the lake house this last weekend. We won't disclose which belongs to which couple (the Laymans or the Coxes) until the results are finally in. Here are the candidates:





This is Pumpkin #1 (the pirate flag)










This is Pumpkin #2 (the smiley face)






Rock the vote, people!

A weekend retreat...

When we went to Ireland in July we met lots of wonderful people. Two families in particular, Brian and Megan and Tom and April, had become immediate friends and we had all planned to get together for a weekend retreat soon. Well that time came this past weekend! Unfortunately Tom and April had to cancel at the last minute (we missed you guys!!!), but the other four of us met anyway at a house on Smith Mountain lake in Virginia.

The weekend was spent playing games, carving pumpkins, eating like kings and queens, visiting a local winery, and other fun stuff - not to mention the wonderful fellowship we share as brothers and sisters in Christ. We can't wait until the next time we can get together again! Here are some pictures...




Saturday, October 18, 2008

We're moving to Cary, NC in DECEMBER!!!

Here's an excerpt from an update email we sent out this afternoon:

We had been praying specifically that we could find a small apartment (1 bedroom) in the $700/month range ($250 less than we pay now) so that we could have the ability to save some money while we transition from seminary to non-seminary life next year. Well, last weekend, while we were staying with [some friends] in Cary, we were prompted to visit a complex near their home. To make things short, we will be living there in a 2 bedroom apartment for $704/month! This place is actually more square feet than we have here in Charlotte and was actually cheaper than their one bedroom apartments. We weren't nearly as surprised as the leasing agent was, to say the least! Join us in praising the Lord for his awesome provision!

For those who live in the Raleigh/Cary/Apex area, you are heretofore coridally invited to help us unload a moving a truck on December 20! Sure, it seems a long time away, but it will be here before we know it. (Don't worry, Dan will send a reminder email...) Megan promises to have plenty of cookies and hot chocolate available! :-)

Thanks for praying for us and please continue to pray as Megan seeks a job in the area.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Pumpkin Carving

We took a trip to Apex this weekend and spent the afternoon Sunday with our good friends, the Peedins. The task for the afternoon was to carve pumpkins! Here are some pics of the fun (yes...Dan did carve a Saluki logo into his pumpkin!):

WW update...

Megan: down 14 pounds in 9 weeks...

Dan: down 24.6 pounds in 9 weeks...

Gracie: happy to eat for us...

Our fifth...

So last Saturday, October 4, Megan and I celebrated our 5th anniversary. I planned a relaxing weekend getaway to Blue Ridge, Ga - the very same place we honeymooned - to stay in a cabin up in the mountains. We had a really good time just catching up on The Office and reflecting on all the good memories we have been blessed to enjoy. We also played some pool - I won two games and lost five (don't ask...let's just say Megan didn't win any...) and I managed to slay a scorpion with a butter knife (again...don't ask).

We also managed to attend a Weight Watchers meeting in Ellijay, Ga. Wow, that was a bit different than the city-fied meetings in Charlotte. I did learn that a
caffeine free diet coke counts as a serving of water. Seriously?!?! Oh yeah, and the colder the water, the more calories you burn by drinking it. Really?

We are blessed by the Lord to have a great marriage! We both look forward to many many many more years.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Catching up...

Wow, it has almost been a whole month since we last posted here...that is really unbelievable. Time is going by way too fast! So, what's been going on with us?

Over labor day weekend we traveled back to Illinois for Megan's dad's wedding. The wedding was great and we are so happy for Loren and Myra! It was really good to be able to see all of Megan's family and we even hung around the area for a few days to see some of mine as well. It was our first trip back home in eight months! Below is a picture of Megan with her dad.

The weekend of September 14 we went to Apex to see our friends and to celebrate my 32nd birthday. Megan asked me what I wanted this year and I told her that I would love to get our friends together for a cookout. Well, it was really hot, but it was a lot of fun. The fellowship was good and the cornhole wasn't bad either (if I could play better it wouldn't have been that bad...). Below is a pic of me in my birthday hat.

Other than the traveling, things have just been pretty busy with Megan's work and my school and work. We've also made some pretty drastic changes in our eating and exercising habits. We are both doing Weight Watchers and are working out at Lifestyle Family Fitness a few days a week. We've both lost some weight and are feeling so much better.

We hope you all are doing fine!

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Bring it!

Here is the current radar image for Charlotte...beautiful isn't it? I really enjoy rainy days. They're great days to just be lazy. Too bad I have so much to do. Oh well!

Friday, August 22, 2008

The return of Friday randomness...

* On this day in 1865, William Shepherd of NYC patented liquid soap. Here's to you Mr. Liquid Soap maker! Now every man can take a shower like a girl...where's my loofah?

* I am in a massive music rut right now, only listening to the tried and true favorites of the past. Anybody have any suggestions for something new? I am wanting something folk-ish, americana, or even some progressive bluegrass.

* School's back! As mentioned in my previous post, the beginning of this week was devoted to getting back up to speed on my Hebrew. I am in my third semester o
f the language and to make sure we stayed up on things, my prof had a quiz for us on our first day back from the summer break Wednesday. He's not only a smart guy for doing that, but he's a nice guy for giving us such an easy quiz!

* My preaching classes this year are focusing on preaching expositionally through narrative passages of the Bible, particularly in the Old Testament. I am really excited about this since narrative composes so much of the Bible, and it is often neglected in Churches (if not just relegated to moral pick-me-ups and character studies). Here's to preaching the WHOLE counsel of God!

* Meg and I are excited to be heading to Apex this weekend to visit with friends and the church there! Hopefully, we'll be moving back there in the next year!

* RTS requires its graduates to memorize and take exa
ms on the Westminster Shorter Catechism by Spring break before they graduate. Yeah, I really need to get moving on that...only 7 months to go!

* Meg and I love Trader Joe's grocery store. If you have one in your area, go! Now!

* Calling Luke Johson! Luke? Where are you? I miss you...hope Ireland is still treating you well! Are you wearing man capris yet? A picture is included on the left...if you see this man anywhere in the greater Dublin area please let me know - and please point at him and laugh! :-)

* Meg and I are leaving next Friday morning to fly to St. Louis for her dad's wedding. We're looking foward to going back home for a few days...

* How long before the Cubs finally choke? They are starting to convince even me...man, that crow will taste horrible if I have to eat it.

* Eat more hummus. That's right. Eat hummus. I can't believe I am saying this, but it's good.

Have a good weekend!

Monday, August 18, 2008

Tick tock, you don't stop...

Well, folks, this is it. On Wednesday I start my last year of seminary....pretty exciting huh? It is but there is this one thing looming over head:

HEBREW

After three months of procrastinating on keeping up with grammar and vocab, when the clock strikes 1:00 PM on Wednesday I will have to take a quiz. So, guess what I am doing over the next two days???

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

In honor of NYC...a top 10

This post is dedicated to Megan's step-dad, Bill. (We hope you enjoy it!)


Top 10 things we learned in NYC:

10. Only one person at a time can fit into a revolving door, although trying to fit more is fun!

9. A New York City Pass saves money and time in lines!

8. Even though lines can be short(er) because of the City Pass, it is still customary, acceptable, and welcome to moo like a cow at any time you grow impatient or just giddy.

7. Some cultures don't understand the idea of personal space or deem it a necessity. One must be prepared to breathe heavily on another's neck in order to fit in.

6. If you go to the street fair in Time's Square only walk one block because if you keep going it only repeats (all they sell is junk food, scarves, jewelry, and Reggae and Porn music from the 70s).

5. Restaurants located in museums have one unified purpose among them: to rip you off! The food is mediocre at best and more expensive than nachos and water at a baseball game.

4. The subway and bus system aren't as hard to navigate as you think they are. Save money and just use them!

3. The subway is really, really hot (really!)...

2. Audio tours are the worst inventions ever and should be banned immediately. If you are an audio tour lover you should learn to be aware of your surroundings while meandering and be prepared to step away from the painting, etc. you are looking at so others can see it too. That five minute explanation about Constantine's head is probably not worth listening to anyway.

1. 18% gratuity on meals is expected and even included for your convenience. Extra gratuity (i.e. tipping) is welcome.

The hecticly relaxing vacation...

We know its been a whole week since we got back from New York, but we are just now getting a moment (together) to fill you in all the goodness of the trip. Here is a brief recap of what we did...

We had a great flight to NY on Thursday and an even better bus ride to our
hotel. We stayed at the Grand Hyatt in Manhattan (right next to Grand Central Station - right in the middle of everything) and Megan's parents (who flew in from Chicago) stayed there too. They arrived a few hours after we did so we had a chance to orient ourselves a little bit as well as go pick up subway passes for everyone. That evening the four of us took the bus down to the Circle Line Tour dock and enjoyed an evening harbor cruise (half-way) around the island. It lasted two hours and when the sun finally went down the views were excellent.

Friday morning we awoke from our slumber (we slept sooooooo good in our posh hotel!!!!) and navigated our way on the subway up to Central Park and went to the American Museum of Natural History and the Metropolitan Museum of Art. The best words to sum up this day are overwhelming and soreness. The History museum wasn't all that great for people over the age of 12 so we didn't stay long. The Met (after we walked through the park to get there - we won't mention the hot dogs we ate or the unexpected wrong turn) on the other hand was awesome. We spent about 6 1/2 hours there but we could have been there for a week. It was fun to get Bill's (Megan's step-Dad - who is an Art professor) perspective and instruction on all the stuff we saw there. To top off the day we took the concierege's advice and had sushi at a nearby restaurant. It was yummy! But that wasn't the end of the evening. We spotted a nice pub on the walk back to the hotel and jumped in for a beer and some dessert.

Saturday morning, we took our pain medications and slathered up with Aspercreme and headed out to the Guggenheim Museum and the Modern Museum of Art. The Guggenheim was great from architectural stand point but the galleries were kind of lame. We would have been out of there in about 30 minutes if it had not been for a terrential downpour of rain. So after another 45 minutes in the cafe we headed to MoMA. Little did we know it was family day at the MoMA, but that didn't stop us from having a great time looking around and learning lots from Bill. You could tell he really enjoyed being at these museums and his joy was contagious. After all that we made our way to the sea of humanity called Times Square and oogled over all the lights, enjoyed a funnel cake, and eventually, ate at Planet Hollywood (where we were entertained by the worst DJ in New York, ever!).

Sunday we rested. The two of us took a walk down fifth avenue - all the way to the coolest Apple store ever. It was fun to see all the fancy stores (which weren't open yet) and landmarks such as Trump Tower. On our walk back to the hotel we found a really excellent breakfast place which was even better because it was clean and you could eat for under five bucks. Anyway, in the afternoon the four of us went to the Empire State Building and then had lunch at Heartland Brewery where we enjoyed an interesting, yet good, fried Pu-Pu platter. (It's not as bad as it sounds). We then headed back to the hotel (after Megan had a brief stop at the Loft store and held herself (or Dan) back from buying anything) and got ready for our Broadway show that night - Mamma Mia! Before the show we had a nice dinner at a Thai restaurant. The show itself was fun and entertaining and we had great seats. Dan even won a CD! After the show we found an Irish Pub open and had ourselves another nightcap.

Monday was Megan's favorite day. We went to the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. This was Megan's second time in NYC and last time Ellis Island was her favorite stop. Even upon her second visit, it was still just as moving - even if the crowds and lines weren't. Dan really enjoyed it but was growing weary of all the other tourists and found it hard to enjoy as much as he wanted to. We were unable to look up Megan's grandma's info although she did come through Ellis Island in 1947. Perhaps we'll have better luck online. After the tours we hopped off the subway for a little bit and walked around Ground Zero. Later that evening we enjoyed some Chinese food for dinner and then headed off to the Gotham City Comedy Club for an all-star show that night. It was fun, although vulgar at times. Welcome to New York, I guess.

On Tuesday we had a last breakfast together with Megan's parents and then went our separate ways on busses to head back home. We made it Charlotte with no problems or delays and were welcomed back to reality...


Wednesday, August 6, 2008

NYC Pictures...

Well, folks, we are home from NYC and have been hurled back into the busyness of life. Until we get some time to post about the specifics of our trip we present to you the following picture gallery. Enjoy!

Click here to see the pictures!


Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Let the relaxation begin...

After getting back from Ireland last week, Dan and I have been non-stop busy. Today we spent most of the afternoon running errands and then finally this evening the relaxation began. Dan and I got pedicures at 6:30 (yes Dan did go after I twisted his arm several times...and his feet have never looked so good) which is a tradition we began last year when kicking off vacations. It felt really good to be pampered and it got me relaxed and ready to spend the next five days in New York.

We leave in the morning and are coming next Tuesday. I am really excited because we're spending the time with my mom and step-dad who are flying in to meet us from Chicago. Out of the four of us, I am the only one who has been to New York before so hopefully I won't get us lost and turned around. Dan has already done a good job preparing routes and setting up a rough itinerary. Yeah public transportation!
This is also serving as an early celebration of our fifth year anniversary.

We won't be blogging while we're there because Dan is not taking his computer but we will fill you in on all the events when we get back.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Adjusting...

Life has slowly been returning to normal for Megan and I since we got back from Ireland earlier this week. Here's what's currently going on with us:

* Megan is working quite a bit over the next few days (since Wednesday night she is scheduled to work 6 out of 7 nights...). If you think about it, pray for her. Those twelve hour shifts can be quite overwhelming when there are that many of them at one time.

* I have come down with some kind of cold. My throat hurts and my ears are kind of goofed up. This sure made worship practice last night a lot of fun. I hope I get better soon.

* We leave July 31 for a five day trip to NYC. We're meeting Megan's parents who are flying in from the Chicago area. This should be a lot of fun!

* Speaking of NYC...anyone have any tips on how to get cheap Broadway show tickets?

* It looks like I am going to be working some hours with RTS Virtual campus this fall. Since this upcoming semester will be a bit easier than what I am used to, I have been thinking about picking up some hours somewhere. I've been praying about it lately and then last week my buddy Dave (who works for RTS Virtual) gave me the head's up about the position. The job is a good fit for me and I can get at least 8 hours a week in (mostly on Friday). This should help with all the recent unexpected bills!

* I am still trying to finish up a couple of summer projects for Uptown Church as well as get these classes done. Time is slipping away fast...

* We've added a couple of trips to the fall/winter. We'll be in Southern Illinois over Labor Day weekend for Megan's father's wedding and in the Chicago area the first weekend of December for Megan's sister's wedding. If any of you Illinois people want to hang out and catch up a bit let us know.

That's all I can think of right now. Stay tuned for some more reflections from our week in Ireland we are working on getting done.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Free Time - Sunday and Monday in Ireland

Come Sunday morning, Megan and I were on our own. We had arranged to stay a couple of extra days after the conference (mainly because the plane tickets were cheaper that way) and to stay with a couple (the Turnbulls) who were at Uptown Church until they moved to Dublin for work last year. It was our intention to go for a day trip on Monday somewhere away from the city but we had underestimated how exhausted we would really be.

So, we tarried around Greystones a bit on Sunday and then took the train to Sandymount where the Turnbulls live. They were away for the weekend but had arranged for us to be able to get in their apartment. And let me tell you, they have a sweet place. As soon as Megan and I walked in we felt immediately at home and wasted no time taking a nice hot shower in their awesome bathroom. We also sat on their couch - something we hadn't been able to do in a week - and just sighed a sigh of relief. It felt so good to relax. We did manage to get up for a while and walk around the neighborhood, taking in the sights and enjoying a good brunch. When they returned from their trip we enjoyed a nice dinner together that Lauren made and went for a nice walk with Jon. The Christian hospitality that this dear couple shared with us whom they had never met until this point was truly a demonstration of the love of Christ and a welcome blessing to us.

On Monday, we ditched the idea of a day trip and just headed back into the city to see the sights we had missed during the week. We started out on Henry Street, taking in some of the shops and enjoying the hustle and bustle. After that we went to the Chester Beatty library where I had a great time looking at all the old Biblical manuscripts housed there - some dating to 150 AD. I am such a nerd, I know. Poor Megan...at least she kept me from staying there all day. From there we went to St. Patrick's cathedral and enjoyed a good hour looking around the church and marveling at such grand and beautiful architecture. As evening came, we made our way to Grafton Street and found a nice pub where we could enjoy our first dose of official Irish fish and chips (I know it's weird that we waited until the last night to do this). It was really really good.

At the end of the day we were a little tired but yet excited about what God had allowed us to experience and share with other people. Our flights home on Tuesday were uneventful and almost right on time, we were home once again to be greeted by a very very happy cat!

Dublin Prayer Conference - Saturday

Saturday morning we had the priviledge of hearing from Paudge Mulvihill who heads up a group called Calvary Mission which has a vision to reach the west coast of Ireland. He shared some amazing statistics with us regarding the state of the church on the west coast. For example, there are 11 towns of at least 20,000 people, 11 towns of at least 15,000 people, 45 towns with at least 10,000 and 63 towns with at least 7,00 that have no evangelical church presence. This is absolutely staggering and we were moved to pray for God to send more workers into the harvest there.

In the afternoon, the women had a luncheon where the ladies sat at tables with different women involved in ministry and then heard from a guest speaker who is the wife of a church planter in Trim. Megan sat with a woman who heads up a prayer ministry called Lydia International. This group of women gather to pray not for personal concerns but rather for their country, their churches, and their communities. The men, on the other hand, split up into two groups and I headed with the group led by our good buddy Luke down to Dun Laoghaire Evangelical Church where Al Breen told us about the work there. After a season of prayer with him we packed up and headed back to Greystones.

After returning, Megan and I took some time before dinner to discuss what we had learned throughout the week and to talk about how God was moving us to respond to the events of the week. They had given us these response cards that we were to turn in during the evening service and I was glad to see that we were in full agreement right from the beginning. It will be a delight to continue to pray for these folks over the next year!

After dinner with our small groups, we went to the evening worship service. This was a sweet time of singing, communion, and prayer for one another. It was neat to see and hear how God had been working in the hearts of other participants throughout the week and to lift them up in prayer. Following the service, we said our goodbyes to the interns and some of the staff and we all headed down to the pub for one more time of fellowship. What a privilege it was to get to know these folks and we are so thankful that God drew us close to several people to form friendships that we already deeply cherish. It was bittersweet saying all the goodbyes, but just maybe we'll all see one another again soon!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Pictures...

Hey all...Megan and I made it back to Charlotte safe and sound today. We're still processing everything that we learned/experienced last week and we look forward to sharing that with you in the coming days. In the meantime, don't forget to check out our pictures here: http://gallery.me.com/thelaymans.